Now, I'm sure I'm not the only one to say that 2017 was a HARD year. I have seen many of my friends post on Facebook and Twitter of how hard this year has been with them. As I was starting to see them, I said "oh my, I thought I was the only one". This year was more than hard, it was devastating and I don't ever want to go back through that process.
I learned a lot in the many lessons that came to this year. There were some days where I didn't want to go on in life. Some where I didn't want to talk to anybody. Some where I thought I was never going to come out of it. People that I thought were my friends, they were just there so I can be convenience for them. Activities that I thought I needed to be at, I realized that even if I wasn't there, it was still going to go on. That's really when I learned that it is okay to say NO! Family members that I thought cared, didn't. I mean, it was a lot to deal with.
But, now that I've gotten passed them, it taught me so many lessons on how to deal with issues and people. They were HARD lessons but valuable ones. Some things and people I have gotten rid of this year. Do I look at it as a lost? No! But I do look at it as a stepping stone and a lesson learned. It is not the matter of me being better than any one, but just an area in my life that I choose not to have them a part of. I would say that is a great LESSON LEARNED.
There are things in life that I rather focus on that will benefit me and my family better than the things that will tear us apart.
As we all get older in life, we should all have many lessons that we have learned in life that makes us all better and not bitter.
Keep growing. Keep learning.
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